Get a clue!!
Who I have got to get rid of. Well, I think she's doing the "get rid of" part for me. Let me explain:
She's been dating this loser for almost 2 years now. He totally mentally abuses her. And I'm pretty sure physically too. She won't let him go!! They've broken up like 3 times, and she's so much happier without him, or so she seems. And when he's gone, she comes around, and we have a friendship...when he comes back, POOF! No more B. It's truly amazing how he has her so confused!!
I think it's a sickness...she's so male dependant that she can't be alone. She has 4 kids by 3 guys!! She's even said "I'd rather be with him and be miserable, than be alone." WTFreak?
yeah, he pays her bills
yeah, he's a warm body in her bed
#1 he's abusive!
#2 he's mean to her other 3 boys that aren't his!
Come on! Those 2 reasons right there are enough to get away!!
I think it's a sickness. I think some woman are so dependent that they can't be alone. I'll admit, I've had my fair share of bad relationships. My 1st husband was an abusive alcoholic!! And an adulterer!! Guess what? I got the freak up out of that mess!!
You cheat on me? I'M GONE! No second chances...I learned that real early.
You gotta be tough.
Gotta stand your ground.
Don't let some man use you and abuse you.
Be a woman.
Be a mom.
Learn some independance.
But now you gotta do it on your own.
You stress me.
I can't handle worrying about you.
But you'll never know.
Cuz he's in the picture.
So I won't see you for months.
And by then, I'll be gone.
It was nice.